Birthday present for a girl i just started dating
But in reality, I was suffering because of my perception.
I wasn’t focused on all the love that I was receiving. As says, I was caught in the illusion of “special love,” the idea that love from one special romantic person matters more than love from anybody else, and that without it, I am incomplete.
My friend hugged me and said, “Will you come with me for a second? If so, I invite you to try out an exercise I recommend to my clients called “looking for evidence of love.” Instead of focusing on the love that you think is missing right now, start focusing on all of the ways you are already loved right now.
And don’t worry, I didn’t, like, text my husband the video and say “You can probably quit now because I just at Dinner With Jacob” or anything unbecoming and immature like that, nope nope nope.
He doesn’t care about me.” Every time I checked my phone loving texts, Facebook messages and voicemails were streaming in. Instead, I sunk deeper into my despair because I hadn’t received anything from .
My sadness turned to anger and I started to attack him in my mind.
One year my boyfriend forgot my birthday and it taught me a lot about love.
I woke up on the morning of my birthday and checked my phone expecting to find a loving text from my love.